I’ve been sitting recently wondering why it is that we make our lives so difficult.

You notice that I didn’t say I wonder why difficulty comes to us, I very specifically said: I wonder why WE make our lives so difficult.

As I sat and reflected upon this question Spirit came through with a teaching that I want to share with you because wisdom resides in their message, and I didn’t want you to miss it!

“You are high frequency energy in the density of the body.

The high frequency energy is your soul level which came into the body of the infant that you were at your birth. It breathed out of the body and created the human that you are.

YOU then became a LIFESTREAM.

Your journey in this incarnation, serves the purpose of the soul that entered and became your guide.

Your entire life: your birth family, the people you’re in relationship with, your choice of work, the experiences you have, the choices you make, all happen in order to meet the purpose that your soul has for this particular lifetime.

Each soul comes into body with specific shifts and changes it seeks to make. As your soul came on this particular journey in order to affect change, and as your Lifestream exists in the 3D world where contrast and constraint exists, there need to be choices that are made. For that is how growth in the third dimensional world occurs.

Situations described as “difficult”, whether created by you or others are the fuel for your growth as they provide you opportunities to make choices and the choices you make, generate frequency and that frequency, creates your next moment.

For this reason, all difficulties are opportunities for your growth.

When you address chaos head on – asking the Divine within, (your 24 /7 guide) to show you the purpose of the chaos – you can then make the choices in the third dimensional world that you need, and you grow from the experience of difficulty.

Through your choice you have created a change, and you are shifted in a way that shows up in your life.

Perhaps you shift a personal habit. Or a relationship is let go. Maybe you switch occupations. Or simply a way that you move in the world adjusts in order for you, to achieve more peace and ease.

Which energy you choose to respond from matters greatly.

When you choose to respond to any difficulty from the energy of love you are open and expansive. You are choosing a frequency that activates the Divine within you and your choice is fueled with that energy.

When you choose to respond from the energy of fear, which is a closed state, you are choosing a frequency that constrains instead of expands.

Difficulty becomes problematic when the being that you are, (not knowing perhaps that difficulty has purpose) chooses to respond with low frequency (fear) or chooses not to address the conflict, thus resisting it – pushing it away.

When you choose to ignore a situation, a relationship, a way of being that doesn’t serve you, that’s when difficulty will return in other forms, in other places, until you address the shift within you, that needs to be made.

If you look at your life, you will see situations that were repeated over and over and over until you made a different choice, a choice that was conscious, a choice that served you in your highest good.

Once you took action, and shifted your frequency. That particular experience of chaos in your life was no longer needed by the Soul, and so it no longer showed up.”

What I hope you take from this message Beloved, is that any difficulty in your life is meant to be an opportunity for growth and when you respond from the high frequency of love, you’re activating the Divine within you. As you become in the moment the energy you activate, you are using difficulty to experience the Divine within you.

Now you are not meant to live within the difficulty, what is being said is that when difficulty arises, you’re being offered an opportunity to ask your wisdom within – what’s the purpose here? What am I meant to do with this? What am I meant to learn? What am I meant to shift ? How am I meant to grow?

When you use difficulty as a lesson, an opportunity to move into a more conscious being, you not only create a more easeful life for you, but you also create positive energy in the field of Oneness!

If you’d like to learn how to respond to difficulty from the higher vibration of love, feel free to reach out for a conversation with me.